Here is a great list of books for you that I have put together
Midlife Crisis at 30 Lia Macko, Kerry Rubin
Quarterlife Crisis Alexandra Robbins, Abby Wilner
Growing Up with Divorce Neil Kalter
The Ambitious Generation Barbara Schneider, David Stevenson
The Challenging Child Mitch Golant and Donna Corwin
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee Wendy Mogel
What We Can't Tell You Kathleen Cushman
Identity Youth and Crisis Erik H. Erikson
Uncommon Sense for Parents with Teenagers Michael Riera
Apprenticeship for Adulthood Stephen Hamilton
Being Adolescent Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
The Sexy Years Suzanne Somers
The Wisdom of Menopause Christiane Northrup